Mentoring Mothers
When a child is born, so is a mother.
“The moment a child is born, the mother is also born. She never existed before. The woman existed, but the mother, never. A mother is something absolutely new.”― Osho
Why Did No One Tell Me?
“Everyone talks about pregnancy and birth, but no one prepares you for life after the baby arrives.”
“I knew motherhood would be challenging, but I didn’t expect it to be this hard!”
“I feel like everything about me has changed, and I don’t even recognize myself anymore.”
“Other moms seem to have it all figured out—why am I the only one struggling?”
“I wanted this—I wanted to be a mom—so why am I not enjoying it like I thought I would?”
“I never expected to feel this exhausted, anxious, overwhelmed, and alone.”
“I’m terrified of repeating the patterns from my childhood.”
“I thought bonding would come naturally, but some days, I just don’t feel connected to my baby at all.”
Matrescense, A New Perspective
The good news is that these thoughts and feelings can be a normal part of becoming a new mother. Normal, not optimal. They are an indicator of a profound passage now known as Matrescence (sounds like adolescence, right?)
Matrescence is the process of becoming a mother, the journey to birth the Mother.
This is the developmental journey of a woman moving through preconception, pregnancy and birth, surrogacy or adoption, to the postnatal period and beyond. Similar to adolescence, it involves profound changes in every aspect of a woman’s sense of self: physical, emotional, social, cultural, spiritual, and psychological.
Understanding this intense time of change as a developmental stage destigmatizes the experience and creates a more compassionate and accepting environment for women to change, explore and shape their lives according to their own personal experiences.
Break Free From Guilt, Exhaustion, and Overwhelm
Inspired by the concept of Matrescense, Transformational Mentoring uses Multilevel Communication tools to guide Mothers through their unique journeys.
As a mom, mentor, Hypnotist Coaching the Unconscious Mind, Mental Fitness Coach and retired birth doula I provide individualized guidance to meet your specific situation.
Let’s get together and begin your journey toward the life you envision for yourself.
What Clients Are Saying
“My sessions with Evelyn were so helpful. Her gentle wisdom and guidance were exactly what I needed to not live in past birth/medical trauma. She has helped me to frame my story in a way that brings me meaning and a sense of accomplishment, not anxiety or shame. So grateful for her!” -Chelsea
“Evelyn helped me so much in my journey into motherhood! Evelyn not only helped me heal from previous pregnancy losses she also she helped me transition into being a new mom. The strategies she taught me I use most every day! Evelyn is so easy to talk to and she offers support in between sessions.” -Laura
“Evelyn is truly a gift to the healing community. Her awareness and knowledge of mothers and the birth journey is exactly what I needed to heal from the traumas I experienced during my own birth. She presents a new way of looking at the world and yourself and it opens all the doors you need to let go and become unstuck. I highly recommend her to anyone seeking to healing journey.” -Holly
“Evelyn’s work has been nothing short of life-changing for me and my family. She exudes kindness and empathy! Evelyn is able to help her clients not only see different perspectives to a situation, but she also provides them with tangible tools to cope with hardships, heal, and thrive. I’m beyond grateful for her, and I wholeheartedly recommend her services!” -Louise
“Transformational is an understatement. I had no idea what I was signing up for, but I am so thankful I did. Lost and confused, I am now on a path of Generational Healing. Something I have longed for my entire life. My work with Evelyn has been evolutionary, words truly fall short of how much of an impact she has had in such a short time. After having my baby, the social isolation had left me lonely and overwhelmed. Your life will be better having met this kind soul!” -Aisha